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No, Harriet didn't marry a pastor. Today is our 48th anniversary and we'll reflect on our early years and the many ways she helped me discover my purpose in this here life. Yes, she married a young banker intent on a top floor office and keys to the executive wash-room. Five years later I was given the keys to the local 300 bed county general hospital as Assistant Administrator/Director of Finance. In that service oriented environment this calling from God became real, and there was Harriet, ready to sell our new dream house and move Elizabeth (age 4) and Brian (age 2) and I to the seminary campus in pursuit of that Master of Divinity graduate degree. It was a unique and blessed journey, learning the lessons of life with this wonderful partner.


Along the way I had to make some decisions about ministry. What exactly had God prepared me to do with the gifts and strengths he had provided? Harriet and I discussed it often, praying intensely for us to know the direction of our ministry. One day, in one of those lower moments I wandered into Binkley Chapel on the Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary campus. The chapel was empty and I had a pity-party, whining a prayer for some clarity and direction as I wrestled with the 84 hour M. Div. curriculum.

After a few minutes Dr. Ben Johnson, organ professor in the music school, came in, settled at the pipe organ and began to play a glorious rendition of the hymn Be Thou My Vision. Just minutes later I was searching one of the pew Bibles and was stopped at Ephesians 3: 8-9 (NIV)---


Although I am less than the least of all the Lord’s people, this grace was given me: to

preach to the Gentiles the boundless riches of Christ,9 and to make plain to everyone

the administration of this mystery, which for ages past was kept hidden in God, who

created all things.


There it was, what I now call my ministry verses. Yes, this text hangs on the wall beside the Life Verses and Passion Verse. My calling is to "make plain to everyone the administration of this mystery...". I'm not all that academic or scholarly, or eloquent for that matter. Making things plain is what I do. There's also a beautiful cross-stitch of this hymn on my wall too, a precious gift from dear friend Jean Boos.


Another yes! God has a purpose for your life too. The Apostle Paul wrote---"And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose" (Romans 8: 28, ESV). It affirms what the Prophet Jeremiah had written centuries earlier---"For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope" (Jeremiah 29:11, ESV).


Ask him to show you his purpose! And, get ready to obey. And, Happy 48th anniversary Harriet.

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So, Harriet and I have been watching The Crown, the historical drama series about the life and reign of Queen Elizabeth and the royals of England. It's been an admixture of education, inspiration, comic relief, and memory. One scene has prodded me most. It was a quote by Princess Alice of Battenberg, the mother of Prince Phillip, husband of Queen Elizabeth. She was elderly and worn. She said---


There came a moment, around the time I turned 70, when it dawned on me I was no

longer a participant, rather a spectator---then it's just a matter of waiting and not

getting in the way.


Most of my baby boomer friends who have viewed The Crown remember and identify with that scripting. Being 70-ish in exponential times stretches and challenges us, our personal escort through a world changing fast---well, exponentially. Are we ready to be spectators cheering the world on from the stands?


Truthfully, I've never been much of a spectator. My personal achiever strength activated me in most life pursuits. Even more, there is this passion thing that keeps my personal fires burning. Most of the minister cohort will understand the passion ignited by our calling to ministry, God's guidance to redemptive service. Many years ago another Bible verse, what I refer to as my Passion Verse was printed, framed, and displayed on my office wall beside the Life Verse. It reflects my passion still today, the personal drive that keeps me in some measure of the participant category---


So even to old age and gray hairs, O God, do not forsake me, until I proclaim your

might to another generation, your power to all those to come.

Psalm 71: 18, ESV


Hey boomer! Gen X'er! Millennial! Gen Z'er! What is your passion? Does it drive your life? Or, is it parked in a remote closet of your mind? It should be your motivating force as long as you live. Be passionate!!!

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OK, it's called a life verse. It is the Bible passage God gave me more than forty years ago when Harriet and I were struggling through some tough decisions about life, careers, and next chapters. Late one night there was one of those old movies on television, long before cable. A man had cancer and was wrestling with treatment options. In frustration one evening he reached into the bed-side table and extracted the Gideon Bible that was usually there then. He threw it open and put his finger down. He read Psalm 40: 1-3 in the King James Version---


I waited patiently for the Lord; and he inclined unto me, and heard my cry.

2 He brought me up also out of an horrible pit, out of the miry clay, and set my feet

upon a rock, and established my goings.3 And he hath put a new song in my mouth,

even praise unto our God: many shall see it, and fear, and shall trust in the Lord.


Honestly, I don't remember the outcome of the movie, the treatment plan the man and his family chose. What I do remember is how those verses answered the wavering uncertainty of our decision making process. Harriet and I agree that in that instant our Gracious God lifted us out of the horrible pit of indecision, the miry clay of hesitancy, and gave us the strength to answer what we have learned was God's call on our lives. It was a turning point we'll never regret.


Looking back, it reminds me that the human species always needs reliable truth to stand on when life currents are swift and faltering. Biblical truth places exclamation points when life's question marks leave us guessing. In his high priestly prayer Jesus said, "Sanctify them in the truth, your word is truth" (John 17: 17, ESV). And, we all need something solid to stand on when the winds and currents are so unpredictable.


Those Bible verses have been hanging over my desk for forty years. They are my life verses. They steer me when the way is uncertain. A life verse or verses will give you that direction too. Ask God to reveal one to you. Now.

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